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47 Years Of Thankful

August 23, 2014 By momcafe 94 Comments

 

I am 47 years old. Wow. I can feel every single year lived through the molecules in my blood and the marrow in my bones. I have 47 years of living each and every day as me. Every age… every stage… of this lifetime. Every single step I took toward something or someone. Every single step I took away. It’s funny how every memory is sewn right into the very fabric of who we are. It’s fascinating that my mind can sometimes flash open hard drives of childhood and adolescence and young adulthood, awakening parts and pieces of me that bring me back to that very day, that very moment, that very emotion.

It’s extraordinary how we age, isn’t it?

Today, I am going to celebrate the very art of aging. The true gift of living.

I stepped out of the shower and took a long hard look in the mirror. I gasped as I often do, at the lines, the grays, the bulges, and flaps. And as I got dressed and began to put my make up on, it occurred to me that every mark and mole, every ounce gained and elasticity lost, every sun speckled wrinkle and dimple has it’s time on my own timeline of hours gone by…

Filled with living.

My Eyes- Crow's feet
My blue eyes have seen 47 years. For 17,155 days, I have woken from sleep and opened them to see. I figure I have used them about 16 hours of every day, so my eyes have given me vision for 274,480 hours. I reflect on the majestic landscapes, the precious faces, the atrocities and the victories I have been witness to in my life every moment of each hour. I smiled and squinted and sobbed with these eyes. I marveled and raged and cheered wide-eyed with wonder and dismay. I have rolled them and winked them and stared deeply into someone else’s eyes to find new souls before me.

Wow.

 My Lines of Laughter

I am guessing I have probably laughed and smiled for a total of five hours every day, which means I have smiled for 85,775 hours in my lifetime. That big grin that contorts my face has seemingly been a fierce force of joy in my days. I think back on the most hilarious memories, the greatest stories lived and told, the entertainment and giggles from shows and jokes. The unforgiving goofy ways I have of cracking my own self up. Oh the laughter… it still lingers in those lines.

Wow.

Flabby Arms

 I have held babies and children, teens and adults in my arms roughly three hours a day, averaging the parenting of my babies into that as well. Three hours a day for 365 days for 47 years totals 51,465 hours my arms have wrapped around another soul. There is nothing sweeter than a full embrace of another. I have been the recipient and the giver of the most tremendous means to connect with someone in each of those hugs, those holds, those carries.

Wow.

Cellulite Leg

 I have walked and stood and moved with my legs for an estimated 10 hours a day, which means I have used my legs for 171,550 hours in my lifetime. These legs have moved me to new cities, up mountains, down streets winding through places new and old. They have bent and knelt and kicked and pushed through life’s vigorous waves of mobility. They transported me to serve and travel and push my babies in strollers for miles. With my freedom to move, I can accomplish anything.

Wow.

Grey Locks

 I was born with blonde hair that grows an average of 6 inches per year. My hair has been budding new strands with a length of 282 feet of locks to cut and groom. I have only given 10 of those inches away, and I pray there is a precious blonde out there that survived her need to wear it. What a gift it is to have what many merely wish for. A form of beauty and grace and identity, my locks have served me well.

Wow.

 Mother's Womb

I have grown two children in my womb and these gifts have filled 11 years of my life. I will assume 24 hours a day (moms, you get that right?), which means 96,360 hours I have reaped the reward of child bearing. My skin has stretched and molded into a mother’s belly leaving behind the remnants of what was created within. Threaded of worn bands that fail to keep it in place, it swells to remember what was once inside.

Wow.

 My Hips Bulging

My hips have shifted to fit those babes, and hormones have charged them wider… My hips have changed, and rearranged dramatically in my menopausal years of ending a season of womanhood and gathering grace for the next. The layers of years added on to my bone have slowly increased my girth. Expanding as never before, reminding me that I am more of a woman now than ever before. Empty of parts, but full of residual physical traits that accentuate its splendor. I have been a woman every hour of every day for 47 years… Which means I have celebrated the unbelievably relentless and most extraordinary existence of my gender for 411,720 hours.

Wow.

I don’t see my crow’s feet. I see the miracle of my vision.

I don’t see those laugh lines. I hear the laughter.

I don’t see these flabby arms. I feel the warm embraces lingering.

I don’t see the cellulite. I remember where these legs have taken me.

I don’t see the gray hair. I measure these locks to give again.

I don’t see the gut anymore. I cherish the vessel that gave me my babies.

I don’t see the bulges anymore, I realize the fierce and beautiful woman I am.

I will celebrate the undeniable blessing of being alive for 47 years, 17,155 days, 411,720 hours…

THIS is living deeply and deeply living.

47 Years Of Thankful…

47 Years Of Thankful

 How many years of thankful are you?  Cherish every year, day, hour.

 

 

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Filed Under: Encouragement in Expression, Encouragement in Words Tagged With: Birthday, Body Image, Encouragement in Expression, Identity, Self Awareness, Self Esteem

Comments

  1. My Inner Chick says

    August 23, 2014 at 6:39 am

    You. Freaking. Rock. Hard.

    The world is so much sweeter w/ you inside of it, Chris.

    HAPPY Birthday :))))

    Amaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazing, Empowering Post.

    Xxxxx KISS from MN.

    Reply
    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 1:08 am

      You. Freaking. Rock. Harder!!! 🙂

      SO grateful for you. <3 <3 <3

      Reply
  2. Romi says

    August 23, 2014 at 7:45 am

    Happy Birthday to you!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 1:07 am

      Thank you so much Romi! 🙂

      Reply
  3. Susan Zutautas says

    August 23, 2014 at 10:52 am

    This has to be one of the most amazing posts I’ve ever read. You’ve taken aging and turned it into a beautiful experience. I love this! I’ll be thankful for 57 years this October. Happy upcoming Birthday to you. Have a great one!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 1:07 am

      Thank you SO much Susan. I am THRILLED that you like it and GET IT!! 57 years of RICH living. YOU are beautiful indeed. 🙂

      Reply
  4. Janine Huldie says

    August 23, 2014 at 11:10 am

    Chris, I am 10 years behind you exactly and I need this reminder, because somedays I am not going to lie that I feel a bit down knowing I am getting older by the minute, but still you are so right that all that makes for an interesting tale and story – my story and I am so very proud of it and all I have done (well for the most part, but still). Thank my dear friend for that reminder indeed and from the bottom of my heart appreciate it!! 🙂

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    • momcafe says

      September 21, 2014 at 1:34 pm

      Oh Janine!!! I love that you can truly embrace your RICH life journey…. lets continue to remember what REALLY counts. Love you sweetie!!! XOXO

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  5. Michelle Liew says

    August 23, 2014 at 11:45 am

    This was a true celebration of life. You are clearly a lady who has seen much over these 47 years!! A happy birthday!!!!!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:57 am

      Thanks so much Michelle! I have seen, felt, hugged, laughed, cried, and so much more. We all have lived deeply haven’t we? I’m just writing what we all experience…really. Some just appreciate it a bit more, I think. I figure we could ALL be a bit more grateful for what we got! 🙂

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  6. Tricia says

    August 23, 2014 at 12:10 pm

    Oh friend, you are beautiful and inspiring. How you approach life and living and celebrating and birthdays – you remind me to focus on my blessings!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:55 am

      It’s really amazingly powerful to dive deep and find SO much we can treasure in our lives- the days-the hours really. Those of us that are healthy and alive with all our parts- shouldn’t take any of it for granted, ya know? We are SO rich with life. Sometimes we just don’t see it, know it, or feel it. 🙂

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  7. Alison says

    August 23, 2014 at 12:29 pm

    As the amazing late Lauren Bacall said, “I think your whole life shows in your face and you should be proud of that.”

    And in your case, Chris, your whole life shows in every part of your amazing face and body. I love your positive, happy approach!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:53 am

      Thanks so much sweet friend. You are so kind! I gots me some serious livin’ in my face and body!! lol 🙂

      Reply
  8. Lisa @ The Golden Spoons says

    August 23, 2014 at 1:08 pm

    You are amazing , my friend! Want a wonderful, wise perspective on body image and aging – something I struggle with continually. You are absolutely beautiful inside and out. Wishing you a birthday that is as fabulous as you!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:48 am

      AW!! Thank you SO much Lisa!!! I’m so grateful for YOU, my friend. I hope you can take this in for yourself. I so strongly believe we are as beautiful as the life we live. YOU are more beautiful than you know… <3

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  9. Irene says

    August 23, 2014 at 1:37 pm

    Hi Love….LOVE this message Chris. You nailed it …amazing!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:47 am

      IRENE??!!!! AW!!!!! I am sooo excited you are here!!! Thank you so so so SO much my dear! I know you get this. Your gratitude glows. 😉

      Reply
  10. Melissa Charlton says

    August 23, 2014 at 1:53 pm

    This post could not be more true of the human you are!! I have loved you for the last 8 years and the only photo you missed in the blog is one of your heart! In that picture you would see scars and healing. It would be larger than most because they say the more love you give the more you have.

    You are one of the most heart lead person I have ever known! The only reason I ever get upset with you is because you are so UN-selfish! You have lived an amazing 47 years and I am blessed you are MY friend. It is my belief God will say to you, “Well done my good and faithful servant!”

    Happy Birthday Pea!!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:45 am

      Reading your words STILL make me cry, even after I’ve read them several times!!!

      I love you. SO freaking much. Two peas, my dear. Two peas. <3

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  11. Sarah says

    August 23, 2014 at 2:21 pm

    I love your pictures, and I love your words. Happy Birthday, you beauty!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:43 am

      I’m sorry, did you say you LOVE my pictures? My lovely little phone pics of my grossness? Did you just call me a beauty? I’ll take the words. LOL

      Thanks love. You are way WAY too kind!! I can applaud the life behind the bod. How’s that? 😉

      Reply
  12. Susannah says

    August 23, 2014 at 2:31 pm

    You are beautiful And amazing, just like this post. Wow.
    Have a wonderful birthday my friend! May you add a lot more laughter to that smile of yours!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:41 am

      AW!! Coming from you, that makes me add about four more smiling hours to my face!! I love you. SO. MUCH.

      Reply
  13. Kim says

    August 23, 2014 at 7:44 pm

    Well, happy birthday a couple days early!!
    I love the way you found the positives in each and every feature!!! You are beautiful!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:40 am

      Well, I really need to look deeply at this stuff. I mean, wrinkles shminkles. Arm flaps, smarm shlaps. I don’t think it matters much when I look at the important things in life. I do however, need to take better care of this vessel. THAT is important! I’ve slacked. (Obviously!!) But for all the right reasons really. Priorities shifted. That’s okay. They’ll shift back soon. 🙂

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  14. Dyanne @ I Want Backsies says

    August 23, 2014 at 8:14 pm

    What brutal honesty! Love this, especially as I am just ahead of you on the age thing and TOTALLY GET THIS. Happy birthday, Chris! You wear every year well!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:38 am

      Aw!! I love that you get this Dyanne!!!! I love that- “You wear every year well.” LOVE LOVE LOVE THAT!! 🙂

      Reply
  15. Considerer says

    August 23, 2014 at 10:33 pm

    WOW!

    I love how you did this. It’s fabulous. And so are you 😀

    (though as I want to be difficult, it’s alleged that each cell in our body is renewed periodically, so *really* you might only be about 7 years old in your oldest bits 😉 )

    Love you x

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:37 am

      LOLOLOL Only you Lizzi. Only you. 😉 Are my wrinkles only 7 years old then? Hmm. Those cells are NOT regenerating well at all!!! Hee hee…

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      • Considerer says

        September 1, 2014 at 5:52 am

        No – as time goes by they regenerate wonky, and that’s why we age and get wrinkles and stuff. But it still only makes you 7 😀

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  16. Lisa @ The Meaning of Me says

    August 23, 2014 at 11:17 pm

    This is one of the best things I’ve ever read. If only more women would see themselves through those eyes…through those experiences…instead of through the lens of the media.

    Happy happy birthday! (Early because I won’t be near a computer on Monday.) May you have many more of the wonderful things that you listed here that made you the beautiful person you are today. I just stinking love you, that’s all.

    🙂
    XOXOXO

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:36 am

      AW!!! And I just stinkin’ love YOU too Lisa!!!! 🙂

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      • Lisa @ The Meaning of Me says

        September 1, 2014 at 12:44 am

        That’s a whole lot of stinkin!

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  17. jamie@southmainmuse says

    August 23, 2014 at 11:45 pm

    Happy birthday on Monday. I’m a few years older and it does pay to keep all the positives of aging in the forefront. Most of all — that I’ve been given 51 years. A lot haven’t. Thanks for the uplifting reminder.

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:35 am

      Exactly Jamie! “Some haven’t.” And I keep thinking of others who have, but don’t have all their physical capabilities to live as richly as I do. Lots of gratitude to be had, that’s for sure!!

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  18. Candice says

    August 24, 2014 at 12:01 am

    What a beautiful way to look at the inevitable aging process. Good for you! Have a wonderful day celebrating you!!! xoxoxo

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:34 am

      Thanks for reading this sis. Gratefully aging… 🙂

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  19. Christine says

    August 24, 2014 at 11:50 am

    When I was younger, I would look at wrinkled, stooped married couples and think about how much I wanted Bryan and me to be like them someday. However, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized I’d rather have the wisdom of an 80 year old but without the aging body bit.:).
    Aging is inevitable, unless one doesn’t get the chance. We absolutely need to embrace it and see it for what it is. You have written a fabulous post about how to do just that.
    Happy birthday you wise woman, you!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:33 am

      “Aging is inevitable, unless one doesn’t get the chance. We absolutely need to embrace it and see it for what it is.” Yes this Christine. Exactly!! 🙂

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  20. Serins says

    August 24, 2014 at 3:49 pm

    This is really an awesome post and congrats. So often we only see the wrinkles on our face but not the beauty they actually are.

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:19 am

      Ain’t that the truth Serins? Really- aging gratefully is the best way to go. How can we not be grateful for those lines that were cause by such a rich life? 🙂

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  21. Tamara says

    August 24, 2014 at 7:46 pm

    I love you so much!
    And I love people born on the 25th! I’m July 25th so we’re ALMOST twins. Just off by a month and maybe a few years.
    All I see here is beauty, Chris.
    Just a little mad at distance that I couldn’t take birthday photos of you!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:18 am

      AW!! *Maybe a few years* You’re so cute!! LOL And what I would GIVE for you to photograph me!! But I would be SO nervous… cause I am not at all photographic. I never look natural and I HATE that!! (Anxiety I’m sure)

      25th Birthdays rule. 😉

      I love YOU so much T. So so so so so so……

      Much.

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  22. Yvonne says

    August 24, 2014 at 9:08 pm

    Oh, wow Chris this post is just amazing!
    I love how you finish this post, from, “I don’t see the crow’s feet anymore. I see the miracle of my vision.” And onwards. Just wonderful.
    And the way you’ve worked out all those hours of smiling and laughing. Oh wow.
    I love, love it.
    I’ve had 56 years, but I can’t honestly say I was thankful for all of them – there was a time that I didn’t feel much thanks for life at all. I’m glad to say that’s not so now, and I feel thankful for the tough years too, because I did learn a lot from them.
    Such a great post Chris, I’m sharing it everywhere!

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 11:20 pm

      Oh Yvonne! I’m SO glad you really get this post and can appreciate it!! Girl, 56 years? Holy hibiscus I had no idea! 🙂 YOU are beautiful my friend. And oh do I get those ‘fallen years’ that were dark and hard and well, lost. But you are SO right about them. Lets cherish them for the person we became through them, and embrace that we got HERE. Our bodies have lived a rich life, and perhaps we are all the more blessed because of it all.

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  23. Sandy Ramsey says

    August 24, 2014 at 10:02 pm

    Chris, Chris, Chris!!! Good for you, my sweet friend! What a celebration of your life and all the wonders of it. Happy, happy birthday!

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 11:17 pm

      Thank you so much Sandy!!! 🙂 It’s been a ride… and I am going to make sure I cherish every hour of it. Even the tough times… this ol’ body got me through it all. And? I’m going to cherish it as I should. XOXO

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  24. Kristi says

    August 25, 2014 at 12:36 am

    This is a wonderful post! I think it is far too easy to take for granted just how amazing our bodies are. Happy birthday to you!

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 11:16 pm

      Exactly Kristi! We moan and groan over our parts that aren’t perfect, and really? They are put to amazing use every day. Why not cherish them? 🙂

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  25. Andrea says

    August 25, 2014 at 1:35 am

    A beautiful post…from a beautiful woman. Inside and out. Happy Birthday. May you experience no less18,250 more days of spreading encouragement and joy to others.

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 11:15 pm

      AW! Thank you so so much my friend. You bless me so… 🙂

      Reply
  26. thedoseofreality says

    August 25, 2014 at 11:37 am

    We just simply, flat out ADORE you Chris Carter!! You are THE BEST ever!! Hope that you have an amazing 47th year and continue to celebrate every single part of you that is awesome…p.s. that is all of you, by the way! What an excellent way to show your gratitude for being alive! Happy Birthday!-The Dose Girls

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 11:12 pm

      LOVE YOU BOTH SO MUCH!!! Ain’t this the TRUTH? I mean, how blessed are we to live a life with ALL our parts and pieces and be able to have such abundant lives worthy of gratitude? I am so RICH! I will never look at these flaws the same way again… and I really really hope all women can look at their bodies this way. MWUAH!!!

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  27. Stephanie says

    August 25, 2014 at 12:21 pm

    Happy happy birthday friend! I’m so proud and impressed that you can see all of God’s gifts through your changing body. You’re an inspiration. Thank you for the reminder to see the good in ourselves.

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 11:10 pm

      It really opened my eyes to something different… this new perspective is absolutely how I want to look at myself from now on!! We are blessed if we have all our parts and pieces to live abundantly, yes? 🙂

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  28. Karmen says

    August 25, 2014 at 12:47 pm

    You are fearless! What a beautiful perspective you have and we all need! Thanks for sharing and have a precious birthday–you deserve it!!

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 11:09 pm

      I am bold, perhaps. Praying through my pride with this one! I mean, it took some nerve to post these pics, yes? Oh my… But hey, the message is SO WORTH IT. And I am blessed that it HIT me just in time to celebrate 47 years of living. 🙂 PS: I somehow caught the stomach flu and I puked all day, but hey- it’s still worth celebrating!

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  29. another jennifer says

    August 25, 2014 at 1:48 pm

    Now *this* is the way we should all celebrate our birthdays as we get older. I love this post so much, Chris. You are a beautiful, amazing woman. Happy Birthday!

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 10:36 pm

      I KNOW right??!!! Why don’t women look at their bodies like THIS? I know, I am totally guilty of not- I am on a new quest with this post. It hit me HARD and I need to not only OWN my body with the value that is holds, but CHERISH it for all the life I have been privileged to live! BIG difference, when we look at our ‘flaws’ that way. Somehow, they aren’t our flaws anymore. 🙂

      PS: Been praying for you BIG time. <3

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  30. Seana Turner says

    August 26, 2014 at 3:10 pm

    Happy Birthday!! I’m right there with you.. and feeling the love of these words today. We have so much to be thankful for. I feel like I should plaster your final phrases up on wallpaper:)

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 1:23 am

      That’s not a bad idea Seana!! I need to do that too!! 🙂 We need the constant reminder… to grow old GRATEFULLY. I must always look past the flaws and deeper into the life behind them. Join me!! XO

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  31. Pattie says

    August 26, 2014 at 7:01 pm

    Happy (belated) birthday. You Rock. I hope that your day was wonderful and filled with love and happy memories.

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 1:23 am

      AW!! Thank you so much Pattie!!! 🙂

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  32. KerryB says

    August 27, 2014 at 11:49 am

    BY FAR MY FAVORITE POST EVER!!! You are amazing! I just turned 40 this year; didn’t really mind but find myself being negative about my looks. This post is brilliant and I will look back on it frequently to remind myself if the strength this body has and the things it has done and seen. Ps I hope I look this great at 47!

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 10:28 pm

      YAY!!! Oh Kerry, I just LOVE LOVE LOVE that you GET/GOT/GOING TO GET THIS!! LOLOL Girl, you of ALL people are blessed and use YOUR body to embrace SO much!!! Cherish every spick and spack of it!! (Not sure what those words really mean, but they’re kinda cute aren’t they?) And really? I mean COME ONE… you are absolutely drop dead gorgeous anyway. So there’s that. (Not that I should be focusing on the superficial beauty of things, oh dear I should NOT be doing that here!!) But you are…

      MWUAH!

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  33. Rorybore says

    August 27, 2014 at 3:47 pm

    there is so much beauty and celebration of life and love in this post…. I can’t even.
    Happy Birthday beautiful you! 🙂

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 10:15 pm

      Thank you so much sweet friend!! There really is… I am one BLESSED woman!! 🙂

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  34. Brittnei says

    August 27, 2014 at 10:03 pm

    Oh my! I wish every woman past 40 could read this! This was seriously an amazing ode to womanhood and the beauty that is gained throughout the years of it. 🙂

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 10:14 pm

      Thanks so so much Brittnei!! I even think anyone at ANY age can embrace their bodies like this- because lets face it, no one is perfect and surely many women are so hard on themselves! If we could only see our body like this. It changes my perspective completely… but perhaps that comes with age too!

      Reply
  35. Jill says

    August 27, 2014 at 10:51 pm

    Happy birthday! You are beautiful inside and out. I am 48 in less than a month, so right there with ya!

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 10:01 pm

      You go girl!! One year ahead of me, so that would add on to these numbers! You can do the math. 😉

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  36. Candace says

    August 28, 2014 at 1:40 pm

    I can’t even begin to express how much I appreciate your honesty and pictures, Christine! You are awesome! I’m 45 and it seems like the last 3 years have aged me more physically than the 42 previous combined. I really needed to be reminded what my body does for me and not obsess over what’s looking back at me from the mirror. Love, love, love this. Thank you :)!

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 9:52 pm

      Oh Candace!! I’m SO glad this post speaks to you!! YES YES YES! I get it. I get you. It’s so hard to look in the mirror and see how things are “changing”… but really? With this perspective, we can embrace every part because they have served us WELL. Thank you SO much for coming by and I pray you can believe and keep LIVING out your life focused on these things versus the ‘other stuff’. That is my intention for sure!! 🙂

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  37. Alexa says

    August 28, 2014 at 6:12 pm

    Wow. You are beautiful, brave, and inspirational. Happy birthday!

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 9:50 pm

      Brave YES! lol Well worth the humility to show these pictures in order to share this message, I think. How grateful I am and how grateful we can all be really. 🙂 Thanks so much love, for your beautiful encouragement!! XOXO

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  38. Kristi Campbell says

    August 28, 2014 at 8:47 pm

    This post is incredible, Chris. Absolutely stunning. You are incredible and absolutely stunning. Here’s to 47 more and a very very happy birthday to you, my lovely friend.

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 9:49 pm

      AW! Thank you so much Kristi!!! There is surely aging going on, but I’ll take what it gave me!! And I’ll take 47 years more of it if I can get it!! XOXO

      Reply
  39. Leah says

    August 29, 2014 at 12:07 am

    So. Completely. Amazing. You are so beautiful and I love every word you said. What an example you are to me and to all! Hope you had a spectacular day!! xox

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    • momcafe says

      August 31, 2014 at 9:48 pm

      Thanks so much Leah!!! It was pretty bold of me to post these pictures!! BUT- I swear it just HIT me hard, and I felt it was worth the message here. XOXO

      Reply
  40. Michelle @ A Dish of Daily Life says

    August 31, 2014 at 10:53 pm

    Oh Chris, you are just the best! Happy Birthday to you! I know I’m a little late, but better late than never, right?!

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    • momcafe says

      September 1, 2014 at 12:28 am

      You are SOOOO SWEET to come by my friend!! Never too late. Never. 🙂

      Reply
  41. Tammy says

    September 2, 2014 at 1:00 pm

    Oh Chris, this touched me in such a deep place! I am sitting here in tears and I don’t even know why. This was just so moving, touching the deepest part of my soul. I love your perspective. I love the pictures. I just love you.

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    • momcafe says

      September 5, 2014 at 4:09 pm

      AW… Thanks so much WPB!! I’m SO glad it touched you so deeply… I really had that ‘aha’ moment, ya know? Oh, how we have so many hours to count in our incredibly BLESSED life- that is reflected in our flawed bodies. 🙂 It surely changes my perspective… I’m so glad God opened this insight to me!

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  42. Shell says

    September 2, 2014 at 5:09 pm

    Love your take on this! Hope you had a fabulous birthday! xo

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    • momcafe says

      September 5, 2014 at 4:06 pm

      Thanks Shell. I didn’t actually- I puked all day. Sigh. But hey, it’s not really about that day but the year that passed. And I can surely say it was fabulous!

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  43. Topaz says

    September 16, 2014 at 1:29 am

    This was BEAUTIFUL, absolutely beautiful. I LOVE the way that you see your body now. And I love, love, LOVE that you are CELEBRATING your beautiful 47 years. Don’t you love that with our age has come the wisdom to love and celebrate life.

    Yes…this is indeed living deeply and deeply living.

    Happy belated birthday, my beautiful friend. xo

    Writing on the wall of life,
    ~Topaz (Celebrating 50 beautiful years)

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    • momcafe says

      September 16, 2014 at 3:07 pm

      Oh Topaz!!! I’m SO glad you came by to read this one! I believe it’s one of my favorite posts… for obvious reasons! <3 I know you get this, my friend. Lets keep living deeply and deeply living, shall we? 🙂

      Reply
  44. Stacy Voss says

    July 6, 2015 at 2:14 pm

    How in the world am I just now seeing this? You seriously are amazing, courageous and inspirational!

    I just love you, Chris! Thanks for the gift of your words!

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    • momcafe says

      July 6, 2015 at 7:28 pm

      AW!!! What a beautiful thing to say, Stacy!! I’m all teary… I adore you, and I’m so grateful for our friendship!! Thank you for reading this one. It’s one of my faves. <3

      Reply
  45. rusty says

    October 21, 2015 at 4:03 pm

    Wit, wisdom, and amazing vulnerability! What a hoot. I know this is an old post, but I just came upon it today – and since I am a decade older, here is my rather more “reflective” take (for want of a better term) on aging (to be greeted with gratitude): https://moreenigma.wordpress.com/2015/03/18/its-taken-this-long-to-get-this-far/
    Shalom

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    • momcafe says

      October 25, 2015 at 10:24 am

      Rusty, I’m so glad you came by to read this one! It really is one of my favorites, if I were to be honest. It’s really wonderful to connect with you, and I look forward to reading YOUR post!! 🙂

      Reply
  46. Jennifer Underwood says

    April 13, 2017 at 7:47 pm

    Wow, how very bold! If you can like yourself at 47, gives me hope!

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    • momcafe says

      May 7, 2017 at 10:13 am

      And I’m turning 50 this summer and wouldn’t change anything on this post! Have hope, indeed Jenifer! 🙂

      Reply

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